Understand that you’re not a mind reader. You don’t know what she’s thinking while she’s talking to you and you don’t know what else is going on in her life that may restrict her ability to get to know you. There’s absolutely no use trying to guess why things didn’t work based on the limited information she gave you. Controlling your own behavior and thought processes is hard enough, so don’t complicate matters by trying to be a psychic. Instead, I want you to adopt beliefs that promote *action* and then focus on making those actions the best that you’re capable of.
– Roosh V, Day Bang